By Chloe Morris
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When you think of watching porn, you probably imagine yourself curled up with your vibrator in bed for an intimate night of self-pleasure. But, have you considered incorporating porn during sex with your partner? Sounds super hot, right?
For some, incorporating porn into the bedroom may seem uncomfortable or even scary at first. But consider this: what if delving into the world of adult entertainment could open up new doors for communication and understanding?
Being vulnerable about your desires can be tricky. But discussing what you like or don't like when watching porn together can create an environment for open dialogue. I mean, imagine finding out more about each other’s desires and preferences while fostering deeper intimacy… that’s sexy…
Tip #1: Explore on your own
Woah woah woah! Not so fast! I know you’re probably dying to try out porn with a partner, but first, it's important that you check out some films on your own time. Figure out what you like, what you want to show your partner, and what turns you on.
Exploring porn on your own will ensure that you don’t become overwhelmed when you’re with your partner and that you feel comfortable navigating the porn space.
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Tip #2: Start with the basics
If you and your partner are new to exploring porn together, starting with more approachable or classic categories might be less overwhelming. Just like in any new sexual situation, it is often best to stick with what you’re used to before diving headfirst into anything you’re unsure about.
"Classic" porn, which often includes mainstream scenarios and positions, offers an accessible introduction while still being steamy enough to spice things up in the bedroom. Try to find porn that looks like the sex you and your partner have. It also may be best to find films with real-life couples, which could be more approachable for you and your partner.
Ultimately, the key here is communication. Be open about what works for both of you and don't rush through selections. Remember: Exploring should be fun.
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Tip #3: Try out kinks
Have you ever thought to yourself, “wow, I really want to try out [insert anything here], but I don’t even know what that would look like with my partner.” Well, porn can be an amazing visual tool to explore your kinks and provide examples to your partner. If you see something that turns you on, you can tell your partner “I want to do exactly that!”
You can also use porn to browse genres with your partner and unveil mutual interests that you didn’t know existed. For instance, have you ever explored the vast world of cucking? Well, maybe it’s your next partnered fantasy! Check out “I Love My Hotwife” here.
In other words, porn can break the ice about sexual preferences and stimulate discussion between partners. Plus, learning what turns your partner on adds an extra layer of intimacy. Incorporating this strategy isn’t just fun; it also contributes towards building a healthy sex life that's based on open communication and shared exploration.
Remember though, while variety spices things up in bed (or wherever you fancy), always prioritize consent. Both parties should feel comfortable throughout their erotic voyage.
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Tip #4: Test out partnered exercises
Does your partner’s head game always disappoint you, but you’re not sure how to tell them? Well, using afterglow’s partnered exercises can help you and your partner improve your sex while also opening up dialogue to what you like.
If you're looking to bring more closeness into your relationship, engaging in these exercises together might be the way forward. They can foster trust by allowing for novel modes of dialogue and comprehension. Beyond that, they provide opportunities for partners to learn about each other’s desires and preferences on a whole new level.
Unlike traditional approaches, these exercises don't merely focus on physical intimacy but emphasize emotional bonding as well. By exploring various elements of sexual wellness together, you create shared experiences which further deepen the bond between you two.
The beauty lies in its novelty - every session offers something different. This constant change keeps things interesting while making sure both parties are engaged throughout the process. Interested in trying it out? Check out our partnered exercise, “Sensual Undressing With Your Partner.”
Tip #5: Find your next binge-watch
Who said porn has to be one-and-done? Not us! If you’re bored of your typical Netflix-and-chill with your partner, check out afterglow’s many sexy series. Gone are the days when watching porn was an isolated event; now it can be part of your shared activities list. With afterglow's TV show-like porn series, couples get more than just quick scenes or one-off videos.
You'll embark on a journey where storylines unfold over multiple episodes. This style allows for character development, plot twists, and (obviously) fucking that keeps you coming back for more.
Start out with “Three,” a dramatic five-part explicit adult series that explores the joys, trials and tribulations of consensual non-monogamy. Follow Ingrid, Andrea, and David as they navigate sensual seduction, deep connection, and heart-stopping drama under the sultry Spanish sun.
Ultimately, exploring porn with a partner is more than just adult entertainment. It's about communication, understanding and intimacy.
You've learned the importance of open dialogue when diving into this uncharted territory together. You've grasped how to navigate as beginners by starting with more approachable content.
You're now aware that exploring different categories can lead to discussions about preferences, helping you discover new kinks or reaffirming what you already enjoy.
Engaging in partnered exercises and binge-watching series together brings an element of shared experience that fosters deeper connections.
All these are steps towards enhancing your relationship while opening up avenues for sexual exploration. Good luck exploring!
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