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As weeks have gone by and the dystopia of a global pandemic set in, we are being shown, more than ever, the obtuse realities of inequity in this country. The systemic oppression and inexcusable injustices that are ever present in our society are being further exacerbated by a crisis that depletes our resources and our humanity.
Despite this omnipresent shadow permeating the collective conscience, we have seen incredible generosity from communities and individuals alike that are stepping up to support one another through this political, economic, and social shift. We are finding new and creative ways to connect, comfort, and continually show that we are in this together.
While the inspiration and positivity flows through our phones and computers alongside the inevitable overbearance of news and sadness, we look to create our own pathways for continued support for the communities we care about. This includes everyone, everywhere, with special attention given to those most affected by the pandemic.
While few are likely to come out of this unscathed by the health and economic impact of the coronavirus, individuals and families supported by sex work are particularly vulnerable because the scope of their work often falls into legal gray area, making it impossible to seek financial government relief and extremely difficult to continue making money and, ultimately, survive.
Individuals and families supported by sex work are particularly vulnerable because the scope of their work often falls into legal gray area, making it impossible to seek financial government relief.
We are excited to announce the launch of a campaign in support of The Sex Workers Outreach Organization. SWOP USA is a national social justice network “dedicated to the fundamental human rights of people involved in the sex trade and their communities, focusing on ending violence and stigma through education and advocacy.”
Today (April 17th) through Sunday April 19th, we will be donating 100% of profits made from all “Support Your Local Sex Worker” t-shirt sales in an effort to support a community explicitly excluded from the small business stimulus bill.
Learn more about how the sex worker community is deeply affected by America’s puritanical views during the coronavirus outbreak from “certified sex educator-writer-parent-sworker” and friend, Elle Stanger of @stripperwriter as she helps paint a different picture of the sex industry and explains why supporting sworkers like herself is so important—to sex workers, society, and destigmatization.
why supporting sex workers right now is important
words by Elle Stanger
In the midst of this COVID pandemic and worldwide lockdowns, more of us are staying home and keeping company with our cells, laptops, and tv screens. Which means more porn watching and digital hookups. In this springtime of social distancing, even mainstream media sex-education experts began recommending folks to masturbate and engage in online and digital sex.
Despite lockdowns and venue closures of state declared “non-essential” businesses, rent and bills are still due for millions of suddenly out-of-work Americans. As a longtime pornmaker myself, it comes as no surprise that pornmaking platforms and content selling sites have exploded with new scenes, performers, and clients. As a certified sex educator, I've watched as coronavirus has been a catalyst for new discussions about sexuality, consent, and privacy.
If you’re like many millennials who aim to support small businesses with good labor practices and gig economy workers, you might ask yourself, how does one support porn most ethically? For one, pay for your porn. “We were explicitly excluded from the small business stimulus bill. Funding [sex workers] in any way possible helps us maintain our business and keeps us creating!” says pro-domme Kimberly Kane.
When sex workers have the means to continue creating content, the benefits help stimulate society, sight unseen onscreen.
“Online SWers make people feel special, alive, comfy, horny when they are in their homes. Since we are all in our homes till further notice, it’s more relevant than ever to buy content from them,” says Barbary Rose on Twitter.
Porn’s benefits go beyond satisfying base sexual desire or physical need (although it can certainly do that).
“Since social distancing started, I've been providing more emotional labor than porn!” San Francisco based sworker Byron Dubois exclaims. “We give people empathy, connection and a break from bad feelings in ways that can be hard to find. But we can't be there for you if we're not eating or get deplatformed so we need you to support us!”
Porn gets a bad rap from both religious fanatics and some well-intentioned feminists who claim that “all porn is abusive” despite the fact that porn has positive impacts on people’s sexuality when understood contextually as entertainment and for some, educational.
For many of us, porn is how we learned about our sexual orientation, or gender presentation. A happy buyer recently commented, “Watching your v/v porn made me feel validated in my queerness.”
The benefits of watching porn and exploring your sexuality persists in nearly all areas of our lives. Watching sex helps many of us alleviate stress, which boosts the immune system. Masturbation (even if you don’t orgasm) lends to better blood circulation and organ functioning while preventing genital atrophy.
Porn has positive impacts on people’s sexuality when understood contextually as entertainment and for some, educational.
The porn industry has also grown in such a way that it’s become an inclusive representation of all types of bodies, sexualities, and preferences. Maybe porn showed you your first cut or uncut penis, or that you’re not the only person with nipples like that.
That’s not to say porn doesn’t have negative impacts when it reinforces one type of dynamic, body image, or sexuality. Consider what values might be implicated if all porn was made by-and-for a straight, white, masculine, hetero viewer. Surely some of us have felt less than sexy because we didn’t measure up to somebody we saw on-screen. Haven’t you ever mimicked something you saw in porn because you thought that’s what sex was “supposed” to be like? Have you ever watched something and found yourself feeling not at all represented?
For our mental, sexual, and social health, porn must be as diverse in its portrayal of activities as it is in bodies, abilities, gender, and orientation. Queer porn is important to remind queer folks that they exist and are normal. Fat porn is important. Black and POC-directed porn is important. Trans porn is important. Porn created by people with physical disabilities is important. This is the content that is getting harder to create and to find.
For our mental, sexual, and social health, porn must be as diverse in its portrayal of activities as it is in bodies, abilities, gender, and orientation.
Since the passage of the anti-porn and online sex work bills known as FOSTA and SESTA (which claim to fight child and sex trafficking, but don’t) in 2018, independent creators, queers, POC, and disabled sex workers are now more likely to be banned from social media. I’ve been deactivated twice from Instagram without any warning and was told I was “soliciting adult materials.” These bans make it impossible to advertise our services, make money, and, ultimately, survive.
Meanwhile, large porn companies with millions of followers are deemed “safer” and more “verifiable” by social media platforms than an independent creator. The thought being that an independent creator could be a victim of sex trafficking, so social media platforms will remove them rather than take the time to verify or ask.
In actuality, a bill purported to help victims of trafficking and bring justice to the pimps made real victims harder to find since so many consensual creators are now being scrutinized by the same standards as you would use for a victim of trafficking. Quite simply, criminalizing consensual sex work hurts a lot of people.
As a porn creator, I want people to know what real sex can and does look like. Sometimes I show a safeword negotiation; I don't cut all the scenes where I ask for lube or a lighter touch. My partners and I are able to discuss our STI history and our boundaries. Essentially, porn can be an amazing tool if you handle it ethically.
Supporting sex workers is important now and forever “because there will always be a market for it, and the more y’all support independent creators, the more ethical the industry will be,” adds sex worker Ellie Rae.
Let queers and independent makers survive in a time of quarantine. Pay for your porn. Request a commission. Be discrete in the transaction notes so we don’t get flagged. We thank you.
Porn Union Leader to Trump: Why Are You Screwing Us Out of Our Coronavirus Stimulus Check? via The Daily Beast
How Sex Work Is Changing in the Pandemic via The Lily
Explore ethical porn via Crashpad Series
Sex Work is Legitimate Work via DailyDot
Impacts of SESTA on US Sex Worker’s Vulnerability To Infectious Disease via SWOP